Christmas time is coming....

“And she will have a son, and you are to name him Jesus, for he will save his people from their sins.” - Matthew 1:21
Generally Forgiveness is more associated with Easter than with Christmas. But without Jesus’ birth, there’d be no resurrection—or forgiveness.

Talk to your children about the true meaning of Christmas so they learn to treasure what Jesus has given them:

1. Why do we celebrate Jesus’ birth? How would you describe Christmas to someone who didn’t know about Jesus?

2. What’s your definition of a “perfect” Christmas? What kind of gifts do you like to give and receive at this time of year?

3. Why is forgiveness a special gift from God? How can we respond to receiving such a great gift?
What are some ways you can demonstrate forgiveness to other people—especially at Christmas?

"We live, We love
We forgive and never give up,
'Cause the days we are given are gifts from above,
And today we remember to live and to love"
"We Live" by Superchick

Most people associate Christmas with giving, but it’s also an important season to remember to be “forgiving.” Here are some ways to help your family focus on forgiveness this Christmas season:

1. Share with children that Jesus is a perfect gift. When God sent his only Son to earth, he made a tremendous sacrifice. But he did it because he loves each of us. Jesus is a gift that always “fits” and never needs to be returned.

2. Follow Jesus’ example. Our Savior reached out to people who hurt him and offered them his forgiveness. Then he told us to do the same thing. When you forgive your children and ask them to forgive you, they learn by example the power of reconciliation.

3. Set aside grudges and hurt feelings. Once you’ve been offered or been granted forgiveness, let go of any emotions that interfere with your relationships. Peace and goodwill can reign in your family year-round when forgiveness becomes each person’s first response.

Sharing Our Light

" Don't let your lights go down, Don't let your fire burn out, 'Cause somewhere, somebody needs a reason to believe. Why don't you rise up now?" Britt Nicole "The Lost Get Found".
Christ's love ignites our inner flame and it's our responsibility to shine for others.



For Christians, it's a priviledge to care for and help others, just as God cares for and loves us. And once we've heard the good news of Jesus' love, it's impossible for us to keep it to ourselves.

As Christians we want to our children to learn this concept. Need some ideas? Check these out:

• Look to your Children's Passions for ideas:
  If your kids loves animals, walk dogs at an animal shelter together. If they love making crafts, deliver seasonal gifts to nursing- home residents.


• Start Small:
  Your family can make an impact without going on a long mission trip. Begin with a project that takes an hour or two a month, and then grow from there.


• Invite Friends:
  It's as simple as inviting your friends and family to church events. Make sure they are comfortable and to thank them afterwards.

And ofcourse, never underestimate the power of prayer:
Ask God:
1. To show you meaningful ways to serve as a family.
2. To provide opportunities for you to tell others about him.
3. To help you do everything in loving response to his love.

“Remember these commands and cherish them. Tie them on
your arms and wear them on your foreheads as a reminder.
Teach them to your children. Talk about them when you are at
home and when you are away, when you are resting and when
you are working.” Deuteronomy 11:18-19